Rabu, 05 Desember 2012

MOTIVATION ENCOURAGEMENT LIFE


MOTIVATION ENCOURAGEMENT LIFE

1. Core All Wisdom
That said, there is a clever young king. He ordered all the leading professor in the kingdom to come together and write all the wisdom of this world. They work quickly and forty years later, they have produced thousands of books containing wisdom. King, who by then had reached the age of sixty years, said to them, "I do not have to read thousands of books. Summarize the basics of all wisdom. "After ten years of work, the professor managed to sum up all the wisdom of the world in a hundred volumes. "That's still too many," said the king. "I have been seventy years old. Squeeze all the wisdom into the most basic core. So the wise men were tried again and squeeze all the wisdom in the world in just one book. But at that time the king lay on his death bed. Then the leader of the group was to squeeze another professor policies into just one statement, "Man alive, and suffer, and die. The only thing that remained was love. "

          2. Do not Force
 A grandfather was walking down the street, holding her grandson rural outskirts. They found a turtle. The boy picked it up and peering watching him. The turtles were immediately pulled his legs and his head go under the shell. The boy tried to open it by force. "Doing so is never going to make it, son," said the grandfather, "I will try to teach you." They come home. The grandfather put a turtle on fire. A few minutes later, the tortoise took out his legs and his head slightly. He began to crawl to move toward the child. "Do not try to force do every thing else, boy!" Advice grandfather, "Give warmth and friendliness, he will respond."

          3. Against Yourself
True victory is not the victory over others. However, the victory over self. Raced on the path of success itself is a match to defeat fear, aversion, pride, and all the expenses that tie themselves at the start. Toil to beat someone else entirely useless. Motivation should not born of envy, jealousy or revenge. True success gives true happiness, which can not be achieved through a stained intentions. Runners who ran to beat the other runners, will be left as it was busy peering rate opponents. Runners who ran for solving recordnya himself did not care if the other runners would catch it or not. No matter where and who the opponents. He devoted all attention for the betterment of his own account. He bertading with himself, not against others. Therefore, he did not need to play dirty. The desire to beat others is the beginning of self-defeat.

          4. Confidence
Many smart people are suggesting that we have a strong confidence. The question is self which one should we believe? Are our senses? Though pertinence senses dulled often no more than a broken pen tip. Is our physical body? And in line with the pace of age, body strength expands like wax exposed to heat. Or are our minds? And do not mind the broader advantages of a drop of water in the ocean sciences. Or maybe our feelings? Though sharpness often feeling unable to answer the question of logic. Then self Which should we believe? We should not divide themselves into smithereens like that. Self is the self that brings together all the pieces of our own self. The unity that is called integrity. And only an inner strength that is capable of the most in embracing your unite. Self that is patutnya you believe, because he is able to grasp the physical strength, excellence and refinement your mind.

          5. We are the ones who created the problem Problems
Housekeeping was never finished in the peel, whether in print, radio, screen, and in consultation spaces. "From about sexual harassment, cheating, wife-wife, to the husband who does not meet the biological needs of the wife." Said a spiritual consultant in Jakarta. Incidentally, a close friend had a problem. The story, with age, plus a thriving career wives, even the lives of his marriage led to cool. As there is nothing hidden. Intimacy and excitement that had been missing dipunya this family. The wife seemed preoccupied with the affairs of the office. 'What shall I do, "the expression of man. Spiritual counseling was suggested that he fasted three days, and every night tahajud compulsory prayer and prostration prayer of gratitude. "Try to get closer to God, God willing masalahanya light. After that, you take your wife on the way home. "He suggested. Okay. A simple suggestion met. Three days later, he contacted her. "How about tonight we dine in the restaurant," he said. Istriny not mind. Special food was ordered, as a redeemer vapidity household. Yeah, right. At the restaurant, she frankly admitted was two-timing her love. He had a male friend to confide. Her husband was shocked. His face was as if slapped. Delicious food at depanya not in touch. His mouth seemed locked, but his heart thundered unwilling to accept the confession "was. No wonder he always reasoned tired, lazy, or not excited when touched. No wonder, one night she pretended to sleep while clutching the phone, but the device still showing signal-sign wears in touch with someone. It also, among others, gave birth to lie to lie. Unexpectedly, the candor has been tearing apart this man's heart. Candor that just led to a deep hurt. Or even, more bitter than that. Hti this man as if demanding, "If I do not require advice, of course the problem is not as severe as this." Si consultant accused of, "Come throw in grief." Why kick back. "Did not I suggest that your wife invited talk at home, not in restaurants?" For the layman, restaurants and homes just a place. Nothing more. But, in the eyes of the paranormal, a place to bring "destiny" of its own. And that's what happened. Candor that can not be removed. He has recorded history. So the best way to react is like a wise man said, "Do not get used to seeing the truth of one side only." Wood has become charcoal. We should not run away from reality, even bitter. Falsehood and lies above could be a part of our behavior nevertheless. "We often forget that we are fully responsible for ourselves. We are creating the problem, we also have to meyelesaikannya. "Said the sage. Bitter sweet, sour, salty bland, it's a risk. It was none other life issue is masterful and wise choices in prioritizing.

          6. Flexibility Attitude
When you consider that it took strength to overcome any issues of establishment, muscle strength, and force of will, then you are partly right. A hard rock that can only be destroyed with all their might exert strong. Therefore, many people train themselves to be stronger, more resilient and more bravely. However, the reality often can not be met with strong establishment, or treated with muscle strength, or solved with willpower. There are many things you can not accept, but you have to accept. So, you always need an attitude malleability. Flexibility is not a sign of weakness attitude, but rather a force to deal with everything as it was. When you consider that to overcome the problem is to accept the problem, then you find the other half right.

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